humor, including the most biting, sometimes he 
could be very cutting. I remember one time I had 
spent months trying to understand the other side. 
Because I had been married for some time, and, 
you know—though I was married to the same 
woman and absolutely thrilled with it. And you 
know, a man always finds a woman different. So I 
went to feminism in a big way. I really tried to 
understand what feminism was all about at the 
time; in ’75, ’76. And I came up with this big paper 
and I was really proud of it. And I saw Marshall and 
I said “Marshall, what do you think of feminism?” 
After obviously holding the paper in my hand 
wanting him to read and to comment on it. And he